Email Backlog

First, a confession: I lied in this post when I said that I’d be slower than usual to respond to email this week because I’d be running around in the backyard with my kids. We actually spent the week visiting my parents near Washington, DC, but I didn’t think it wise to advertise the fact that my house would be unoccupied.

I thought connectivity wouldn’t be an issue, but it turned out that I was unable to access the net from my parent’s place. I was able to find connectivity at various places around DC which enabled me to answer the most pressing customer emails, but I’ve still got a ton of email to catch up with. If you’re waiting to hear from me, I ask for your patience – I’m back home now, so you should receive a reply soon.

Light Blogging this Week

My kids are on Spring Break this week, and although I’ll still be working, I’m cutting down on my workload so I can spend more time with them. So, chances are I won’t be blogging much – if at all – this week.

If I take a little longer to reply to forum posts or email this week, most likely it’s because I’m running around in the backyard with my kids, making a fool of myself for their enjoyment :)

Taking the kids to Disney World

Tomorrow morning I’m catching a plane and taking my family to Disney World. My laptop is coming with me, but I suspect it won’t be used all that much :)

I’ll be back on Saturday (Feb 26), and I’ll catch up with email and forum posts shortly after I return.

See you next week!

I’m a little bit country?

On Saturday I attended Max It Out, a local charity event inspired by a 4-year old bacterial meningitis survivor whose parents are friends of mine. Bradbury Software was among the event’s sponsors, which led to an almost surreal experience.

The fundraiser featured performances by country music stars, and the logos of each sponsor were projected onto a screen during the entire concert. For me, it was, well, very unusual to see the “TopStyle” and “FeedDemon” logos appear behind Keith Urban, Faith Hill and Wynonna as they played.

For the record, I’ve never been a huge country music fan, but I’m so glad that I attended the event and offered a small contribution through my sponsorship. Well over a quarter of a million dollars was raised for meningitis research, and nobody left that night without being touched by the dedication of parents whose children are affected by the disease.

Almost an Unhappy New Year

My wife and I met at a New Year’s party, so New Year’s Eve has a special meaning to us. We’ve rarely been able to get out on New Year’s Eve, though, because finding a reliable baby sitter for that night has proved impossible. But this year was going to be different: our niece Michelle was coming to stay, and she kindly offered to watch the kids. I bought tickets to a local show, and arranged a ride for the night – we were set for a good time.

But the night didn’t turn out as I’d planned.

Shortly before our ride arrived, we let our dog Gypsy into the back yard to take care of business. Gypsy was a stray who lived off the land for a couple of years before we took her in, and apparently she’d been shot at a few times – so she’s terrified of loud noises. Well, our neighbors decided to celebrate the new year a few hours early by shooting off fireworks, which freaked out Gypsy so much that she bent one of the bars to our fence then squeezed through the opening and ran off into the night. Which meant that instead of partying like teenagers, we wandered all over looking for our lost dog.

At first I wasn’t worried – I figured that since she used to be a stray, she’d find her way home when she calmed down. But the fireworks continued through the night, and we feared that she was miles away, completely lost and scared. We spent several hours looking for her, but at 2am gave up the search and hoped she’d come back once the sun came out.

We awoke a few hours later – and Gypsy hadn’t come home. At this point, my wife thought she was gone for good, and she was heartbroken about it. Gypsy is one of those dogs with a soul – she has a big heart, and despite living in the wild, she’s a very gentle creature. When our kids were babies, Gypsy would sleep outside their room, and she’d come get us whenever they cried. She made herself part of our family, and my wife loved her for it. So as bad as I felt for Gypsy, I felt worse for my wife.

At about 6:30am, my wife went around the neighborhood calling for Gypsy (which I’m sure endeared her with everyone who partied too hard the night before), and we phoned all the local animal shelters. Our best friends Kevin and Shima (thanks!) helped us plaster the area with “Lost Dog” flyers, and we continued searching all over the place. But as the day wore on, we were less hopeful about finding her, and had to trust that a kind stranger had found her and would see one of our flyers.

Shima and Michelle went around the neightborhood that afternoon handing out flyers, while I sat down with my wife and helped her put together a doll house for our daughter, hoping that the activity would get her mind off her concern for Gypsy. Then the phone rang: it was Shima and Michelle, saying that they’d found Gypsy!

She was wet and tired, and her side hurt where she’d squeezed through the fence, but otherwise she was fine. We brought her home, gave her the best meal of her life – and blogger that I am, I took her picture with Shima and Michelle so I could add it to the end of this post.

Now, of course, I’m torn between hugging Gypsy and strangling her. After I get over the relief of having her back, I’m going to sit her down and teach her how to baby sit our kids, so my wife and I can make up for our lost New Year’s celebration.

Gypsy and her rescuers

Mulan

For as long as I can remember, I’ve tried to find DVDs for my daughter that featured strong female role models rather than the usual submissive princesses who wait for their dorky prince to come. You’d think by now there would be plenty of mainstream heroines for a three-year-old girl to watch, but they’ve been few and far between.

A little while back, though, I discovered Disney’s Mulan, which features a young girl turned warrior, and I was surprised I hadn’t heard of it before. According to the description, this didn’t sound like the usual crap for little girls, so I brought it home for Hannah to watch – and she loved it. For the next few weeks she kept asking to watch it again and again, and she would often zip around the house singing songs from the movie.

Now, this weekend we celebrated Hannah’s fourth birthday, and she originally wanted a (shudder) Cinderella party. But after watching Mulan a few times, she dumped that idea and announced – quite forcefully – that she wanted a Mulan party instead. Good for her!

But we quickly discovered that Mulan wasn’t the hit that Disney hoped for. We couldn’t find Mulan stuff anywhere, so I ended up using Google’s image search to find pictures from the movie that we could use for decorations. And while Cinderella birthday cakes are easy to find, we couldn’t find anyone local who made Mulan cakes. After a bit of searching we finally located someone who could take a picture of Mulan and turn it into a cake, but other bakeries refused to do so due to copyright concerns.

Anyway, the party was a hit, and it was worth the extra effort. But once she tires of Mulan, what else can I show her? I’m not raising her to wait for someone else to make her happy, and it would be nice if there were more DVDs like Mulan for her to watch.

Broccoli girl

broccoli girlMost kids won’t eat their veggies to save their lives, but my little girl – bless her heart – is different. As the picture to the left illustrates, she loves brocoli so much that she gets a strange, carnivorous look in her eyes when she eats it.

PS: That’s her second helping.

My son is reading

My five-year-old son Isaac has been learning to read, and it’s been amazing watching him sound out words, then gradually recognize words based on their appearance alone.

This morning I went to wake him for school, and he was sitting in his closet reading a book to himself.  That was the first time I’ve seen him read for fun.  Isaac is a very bright kid, and I know reading will change his life.  Maybe someday he’ll read this post, but by that time, he’ll probably have his own blog :)

Unplugged until October 16

Ten years ago, my wife and I were married in a small ceremony by the beach in St. Thomas. To celebrate our tenth anniversary, we’re going back to St. Thomas for a week, this time with our kids in tow.

In order to make this a real vacation, I’m unplugging completely and leaving the laptop at home. I’m nervous about doing this since it means customers who need support won’t hear from me for several days, but this will be only the second time I’ve had a computer-free week in the past ten years. I could use the break :)

To prevent comment spam from taking over while I’m gone, I’ll be disabling comments for all posts before I leave. If you have a comment on something I’ve written (such as this, for example), I hope you’ll post it in your own blog and send a trackback ping to my post.

See you in a week!